So after all the hustle and lying for so long about their relationship, Rihanna and boyfrend Breezy finally found an easy way to let thetruth be told.Now thre certainly is no hiding the fact that they were dating after all.Well, i know everyone not just me is speculating about why she got harassed but seriously nobody deserves that.Whatever it was she didn`t deserve the violence she got in return.And to think i thot Chris Brown was the sweetest thing that ever happended to r`n`b.
So lets get down to the real issue.Why do men in particular,suddenly become hostile or violent once they know they got you all to themselves.It happens everyday and what distresses me the most is that women are not expected to do things like take your hubby to court or bail out on the marriage.Some men just seem to think if i beat her up i have arioght to or i can apologise afterwards.(jus like breezy)
If you are areal gentleman then you would know that there is no excuse for violence whatsoever.It is just not an option.Culturally wher i come from women sometimes get beaten up by their husbands and are told by their aunts" shinga semunhukadzi" .Literally meaning be as brave as women are supposed to be.I know its culture but this is the 21st century and no hsband has the right to beat up their wives.
Personally if i had a boyfrend who beat me up ,i would walk out the minute he laid his hands on me.So to all the women who feel they are being harassed seek assistance from professionally trained counsellors and relevant organisations. You deserve better than beatings from him!!!!
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